Interesting thread. Caught my eye as My Master has told me she is going to open me up down there very soon. I want to please her (and enjoy it myself as much as poss)but I've only ever had one finger in there a couple of times in my life and I know she can get carried away with her toys and strap-ons She's bought me a buttplug so we could start preparing me for the 'big one' but refusing to let me use it yet because i was too eager- I am eager to get a bit ready cos I know she going to tie me down and do it one day soon anyway. Just wondering how quickly you went from finger to dildo (with or without lube??) without it being toooo painful? We have a safeword but I really don't want to dissapoint her. She buying lots of things (ropes and clamps i'm guessing) in preparation and is very excited about it.