i am submissive to my Master, and only my Master. Not everyone deserves your service or submission. Being naturally submissive does not mean that you allow others to take advantage. Believe it or not, people will still be your friend if you tell them "no". They will simply respect you more for standing up for yourself. And if they actually have the balls to get upset with you because you said "no", then you will see that they were manipulative user assholes in the first place and they need to hit the road, kick rocks.