read up on what a master/dom is, watch the chat room and read the posts I have met lots fo nice people but what should concern you is there is always danger whereever you go. so be wise have fun and chat but no info to anyone that can lead them to you/. or know who or where you are. If you date some day in the distant future after along relationship do it in a public place take a cell phone and have your contact wait for his real name and id. he should do the same then have fun