Aloha

I would find it hard to put it better than Zesty as Denu has said. However I bring a Dom like view to it. So to repeat wiser words than my own...

Every one will have a different view. The important thing would seem to be YOUR view. If, as your post implies, you have a problem with it, you should if appropriate communicate this. It gives your Domly one a chance to consider his actions andact as he thinks appropriate.

You may be pleasently surprised, BUT you may not and there may start a whole new thread.

Wishing you and yours all the best. Mahalo ~ Dragon