Quote Originally Posted by tadri View Post
// Everything else is for his enjoyment, I may as well not be there. //
// but in a year and a half he's only bothered getting me there a few times. //
// He just doesn't seem to have, or want, any kind of control over his orgasm. //
// he either doesn't believe me, doesn't care, or is incapable of not coming right away. //
// almost never letting me come (he even refuses to finish me off after sex when he knows I haven't had an orgasm and he has ...)
// I now have anxiety problems myself whenever we try to have sex, because I'm terrified that he'll come right away and leave me hanging, something that is now deeply physically uncomfortable for me for quite some time after every incomplete sack-session. //
Second posts are often so informative. You two need to sit down and have some serious talk time.
Good luck.

Twisted