submissive or not??

[denuseri]

It also is a little early (especially if your just starting out) to decide exactly what associated title one should be calling oneself.

Saftey first~ Kinky Second!

[Kuve {Sett}]

Very few people are completely submissive, in most cases, like yourself, they are people who enjoying being submissive to people of their choice to a degree with which they are comfortable. This being the case rather than look for a category into which to try and fit you might do better to spend time in the Lobby getting to know people and getting different viewpoints and ideas about ways of being submissive. You might also try reading the stories available on the site. This can help you better understand which things appeal to you and which do not as well as letting you meet people of complementary tastes whom you can discuss them more fully. Ultimately we are all individuals and part of the scene is embracing your own and exploring it to whatever degree you choose.