this is a great question because the truth is its all relative.
this may sound far fetched but - i first expressed interest at a very very young age, i think it was 13- im almost too
embarassed to consider 12.

while i know all reactions will be the same, "omg wtf is a 13yr old girl looking at porn for, much less fetish porn."
and i cant answer that.. except by maybe offering the theory that, i was always mature for my age, (i know hard to believe for those who've met me via chat.)
i got into chatting super young, dont remember how. and from sites like teenspot and 123chat or w/e.. i went to yahoo chat.
where i met sydney. he was charming, intelligent, and when i pm'd him with my silly roleplay about pouncing on him, he responded with something about tying my hands and feet and dragging me off into his lair.

while it was meant to be comical, it was thrilling.
i guess ive always been a bit conceited, even before those who are clearly better than me.
and the idea of someone taking me down a peg is sexy.
fantasies of rape and torture came years later.

but the need for someone older, smarter and dominating was planted at a very very young age.
and now at 18.. im just trying to figure out how to act on the desires.