be wise and spend time in the chat room. read the rules. and never give out any info that could lead someone to you. there can be stalkers, but most people in chat are ok . like is say be careful also should you ever after a long time of chat decide to meet do it in a public place and have the person show you some picture ID drivers license etc. then phone back to you contact friend and have a nice time. also negoitate what will not happen.