Have an issue, would like advice

[leo9]

I do remember my mom calling my dad "Papi" and "Sir", though not all the time. I also recall him smacking her ass, lol, so hey, who knows. Although I've always considered my mother to be the more dominant/demanding one and my dad did most of the cooking, cleaning, etc.

Sounds just like my pet and me. I think your suspicion was probably right