Dear NiN

Personally, idk, it does seem as if now days the contemporary PC thing to do is say its whatever you wish it to mean or be, but, then it also doesnt seem as if people now days place the same kind of ritual signifigance on an actual collaring ceremony as they once did eaither.

Having done both myself and having been "collared" now in real life for the past few years (starting in real life but having learned ways to incorperate online aspects on occassion at times) I do not suscribe to any such definition of terms that says that an online long distance only arrangment is anything at all equatable too a real life one.

In any event I highly advise you to use caution with your personal information etc especially face shots and other identifiable pictures and web-cam sessions when submitting in any such fashion to someone in an online medium who you can not really ever possibly actually know. More than one girl has found her images and cam sessions plastered on paysites by the supposed love of her online life.

I dont mean to cast a dark shadow or anything, just advising saftey before kink is all.

I pray that your relationship will be a long and fruitful one in any event.

Respectfully

denuseri