Haha, as you mention that I think about myself and how I let my BDSM life encroach upon any bit of spare time I have- working out the balance is difficult; what isn't work or dire responsibility can get eaten up and sometimes I even miss out on sleep--*looks at clock*--yep.

What I can add is this- being submissive doesn't mean you lose your head. You always have your brain with you. It can be difficult at first to sort through everything, as everything is new and appears unusual at first. But once in awhile just take a step back and look at your life as a whole, and ask yourself the important questions: "Am I happy? Am I healthy? Do I like my life as it is or do I need to change something?" Always keep on doing that, and you'll find your way.