Quote Originally Posted by brwneydgirl View Post

For instance, let's presume that one has been tasked with masturbating at least once every day to orgasm...would that person be MORE or LESS "hungry for it" than the person who is on orgasm denial....who edges throughout the day but then is not allowed to come?

Curious...
I am not too sure if this applies to everyone, but in my experience, there is a huge difference here between men and women.

When women orgasm, they get more turned on, more desirous, they want more orgasms, so denying them orgasms does what Flaming_Redhead said; it makes them just stop wanting it all together. If you want a woman hot and horny, you have to make her orgasm more, not less.

Men, on the other hand, get more desirous the longer they wait (they are physically building up pressure), so orgasm denial for them increases the desire to cum.

So for me, as a training/control tool for men, orgasm denial is a beautiful, delicious, easy way to control a male sub. Denying him makes him desperate; desperate creatures are easy to control ; )

If I was ever with a man who denied me an orgasm, I'd just up and leave, because that's not increasing pleasure for me at all. (though that just might be my dominant personality talking : P )

I do love edging both ways, though. Edging for as long as possible does make an orgasm more intense on both sides- but then for me, edging is only purposeful if it ends with that intense orgasm.

Oh, and yes, denying it is a huge power trip.