This was an interesting post to me since I have always been curious whether erotic orgasm denial had the same effects for women as men. Several females who posted indicated that the effects are nearly opposite.

From the male perspective, I have experienced orgasm denial quite a bit and it is something I like a great deal. First, being teased extensively but then denied the opportunity to release makes me more intensely submissive and more needy to please my Mistress. It is one of the ways that I can be put deeply into my submissive nature. Also, the denial itself really makes me feel a Mistress’ control and ownership very powerfully which is the other reason I find it so appealing.

Teasing I think is a key to making the most of orgasm denial. That to me is what seems to make the need build and become more urgent, contributing to the effects described. As time goes by, the desire and need for release becomes something that never quite leaves the mind. One of the most effective means of denial that I have experienced is when a chastity device is used. The device being only removed periodically for teasing purposes and then immediately replaced.

Having experienced both forced and enforced erotic orgasm denial, I find both have a lot of utility in accessing my submissive nature and while a challenge, something I always find worthwhile.