i was molested growing up. the first time i was 6 years old. and the man was my siblings and my babysitter. the next time it happened i was 8 and it was my older step brother who did it. i dont believe these misfortunes are what has made me a sub but i do believe that we are all kind of hard wired in our personalities and that does make us easier targets when we are young. if any one would like to talk about it feel free to PM me.