I think the fact that you have both sat down and talked about all of this is great, it took me 2 years to get up enough courage to broach the subject of Dominating my husband, and we had been married for 5 yrs already, so it will be harder for us to see if this is feasible or not. I commend you, and your husband for at least trying! =) I happen to be on the flip side of the coin, lol. I've found a need and desire to Dominate and happen to have a very dominant husband. Not dominant in the bdsm sense, just anti-submissive, lol. He's let me do a few things and said the were awkwardly sexy, which gives me some hope for the future. But has also shown interest in dominanting me in a bdsm sense,although he has no clue what that is. I think he would be a natural Dom which kinda sucks for me, hahaha cause I so do not want that, but, I picked him, married him, love him, had children with him. So I'm going to give it my best to make it work. Good luck to you Midori. This site has been incredibly helpful, as well as the great people on it.