Rape the fields and pillage the women....ohh wait I am supposed to give good advise. Some men just dont have it in him, but alot of that is due to lack of knowlage. talks between him and you just might not work you, may try finding local kinsters in your area that have munches and such and see if any of the experienced doms would mentor him. I know it's not easy, but it may be the best way, so he can talk to a dom and ask all questions he might be afraid to ask you..and well it just might work...to find local groups try fetlife.com