It's strange, replying to this so late after it was started... But I still want to say that I'm so glad this is here. This site has helped me grow in my submissiveness and learn to overcome my abuse. It might be weird to say but in some ways, my abuse uncovered my unknown submissiveness. I am proud to say that, though I am still plagued with panic attacks and large crowds of people are hard for me to deal with, I am moving on and my abusers do not have power over me anymore.