How to meet people who like things you like? Go find a place that does the things you like. People who like bowling go to a bowling alley. People who like to drink (or have nothing better to do,idk) go to bars. People who like to fuck, go to swingers clubs or for a tease go to strip clubs. People who like kink? go to munches, dungeons, and events.

How to get started? well you joined this site so you've already started. Read other sites (be safe), look up people online who are kinky. Twitter (yes some hate it) has really kinky people tweeting about the shit they do, fetish lists can be found on google.

As far as online things. . . since you mentioned facebook. . .I do not do anything kinky on some sites, I "protect" myself as much as I can. Don't let common sense fly out the window in this "new world". It's new yes, but it's like every other group out there, some people suck, some people rock, some people are dangerous, some people are light fluffy kitties that just like to tie people up when given the chance.

~RK~