Hi, I am armybondy. Yes, just like my name implies, I am an Army veteran. Most people who know me would be shocked to find out that I would be considered a submissive because while in the Army, and even now in my daily life, I am very in charge and in control. I am even very 'in-charge' with my husband's military career, and he outranked me when I got out. But what most people wouldn't understand is that I HAVE to be in control of all that stuff because if I wasn't, someone else would have to pick up my slack, and Soldiers and my children would suffer. So it is nice for me to have my husband ready to step in in the bedroom, take charge and push me to step out of my nun's habit if you will (I am commonly refered to as a prude that should have been a nun) and help me accept and appreciate my kinky side. Its a rocky road since we are both brand knew to the lifestyle, but we are happy to finally identify the 'label' we belong under to give us a network of like minded people who won't judge us that we can talk to and learn from.