oh. but does the fact that you two have been together for so long, mean anything? i dunno. i'm just trying to figure out things before i find myself in a situation like i just described. informed decisions are much better to make.

i mean, if you really love someone, and you two are very happy together yadda yadda yadda, and the only thing that's not right is the difference in sexual preference.... is it an extremely huge sacrifice to make?

i dunno. but if you give up that person in order to try to find someone else like him/her but shares your sexual preference... what if, you dont manage to do so?

is this simply a case of, you cant have your cake and eat it? or is it a matter of what is more important to you. cos i guess, you can still have normal simple sex... just that you dont really urm get satisfied...

i dunno. tough decision to make isnt it.