Quote Originally Posted by lucy View Post
I completely misunderstood VaAugusta's post. In the meantime he explained it to me and if I could I'd delete my last post.
Great when misunderstandings get cleared up :-) That is the good thing about this list, it usually happens rather than things blowing up.

If I had gone out mixing with the local BDSM-scene before I got to know my Master, I think I'd still be a (unhappy and certainly unsatisfied) vanilla. As a single girl I'd either have thought "oh noes! this's fucking predator central!" at the parties or else gotten comatose at one of the local munches.
So, yeah, I really hope the scene were you guys are is better
I am still a bit confused - is this what you have actually experienced, or is it rumour? I think it is a big shame if these munches and societies do not work, but I realize they can be really different from place to place.

When I started out, I just went to one that I heard about on the radio - and I was on my way :-)