Yep, this is not a comperhenshive list of all possible red flags that list would be alot longer but these are all very valid ones. As I said before someone that has one or 2 of these isnt a big deal but even with that said doesnt mean to not take a closer look. The most amusing thing I've seen so far is someone pop up a "red flag" by saying it's not a red flag. I myself pop up one red flag on this list.....now everyone can wonder which one......but people are still going to want to debate this list and say this or that, it is a good list and I stand behind it, this list is even useful to the nillas alot fo this can be applied to any relationship regaurdless if they are kinky or not, I know this would have come in handy to have back long ago in a galaxy far far away when I was nilla