My other posts were posted before I got through the whole thread.
Now I feel like asking everybody: What is it about this message that is so hard to understand?
Yes, people have had bad experiences and want to warn, and yes, the first post could be misunderstood as a newbie in trouble - maybe. Personally I think she sounds too happy for that, but I do understand.
What I do not understand is that after this message, there are - what?17? 20? messages going on and on about how this is not how they would do it, or not the way to do it, and not two doms, and I do not know what.
Is she still reading? Will she ever ask anybody here anything again?
Or has she concluded, rightly IMO, that at lot of people here simply cannot respect a new subs choices, or believe that she knows what she is doing?
Come on guys, this used to be a sensible list!