just show him that everything you do is appealing to his desire and on a bdsm level his approval as well. look up at him, walk behind him, take his conversational cues and learn how he is most happy to see you respond... and tell him. my man k loves when tell him that i'm his dirty little slut, and that i want him to use me like his slut. there's really nothing sluttier than being a proud slut, so just DO THE DAMN THING. remember that your body is an instrument of pleasure and that it should always look appealing. wear things that show that you are more interested in being sexually appealing than anything else. lick your lips. point out other other girls and call them hot,sexy etc. (regardless of whether you feel that way) - guys love this because they don't feel threatened by your attraction to another chick and at the same time they get to think of you being... slutty. i don't know i'm just kind of rambling. it's hard to explain my daily life in a few pointers,yaknow?