The phrase is Domme... you want to become a Domme... that is female... a male is a Dom... I think it is much like riding on the back of a motorcycle... if you have a good driver, you will have a good time. If you are with an idiot, it may ruin you forever... start out slow... go slow... make rules, be safe and be with good people and you will have fun... would love to talk to you more about it... google Image fap and look for badlittleboy--2467... Image fap is a free page, very cool, really go try it...
HAVE FUN, MISTRESS!