My Introduction

**maddie** · 08-01-2006

Hello JMW1961 and rosydawne! Welcome to the forums! I hope both of you find lots of useful information here and I look forward to seeing y'all around the forums!

**Tojo** · 08-01-2006

Hi welcome to KY_Master, JMW1961 & rosydawne.

rosydawne, one's sexuality isn't cast in stone, from what I've seen & I've seen quite a bit. I hope your wish comes true.

JMW- talk to your partner, first & foremost- she knows what she wants, or get her to write it down for you.

KY- yes try the personals, but start slow. From what I hear many nice subs are put off by anyone coming on too strong, try making friends first.

Have a great time guys.

Tojo

**aree** · 08-01-2006

Hello JMW1961 and rosydawne.

**KY_Master** · 08-01-2006

Was I coming on to strong? I apologize if it seemed that way.

**katie_21** · 08-01-2006

Nah I don't think you was coming on to strong I think they were just giving you advice NOT to

Welcome to the forums everyone who just joined!

**Widget** · 08-01-2006

JMW1961 and rosydawne! welcome to the forums. Have fun and enjoy.

**little_rose** · 08-01-2006

Hey Guys, a welcome from me too

And Rosydawne, i know how you feel.
I'm bi (i think, sexuality is fluid as tojo has pointed out), but i'm also more into being dominated by a man than by a woman.
Or maybe it's that society has conditioned my desires in that way...I'm not sure, but this is a good place to figure out what is out there, and experiment;0

xx

**Widget** · 08-01-2006

Hello little_rose and welcome to the forums. I am sure you will find a lot of interesting things to read in here.

**Silke** · 08-01-2006

A warm

to all the new faces in the house...make yourselves at home and have fun exploring and making friends. Looking forward to seeing you around.

**dzire2pleeze** · 08-01-2006

I'm a little behind on my greetings, so hello and welcome to all that have joined our little loonie bin. Have fun

**BeautifulOblivion** · 08-01-2006

Hey guys. I just joined the forums and actually made my first post in "word games. =)" That seems like a fun little thing to play.

Anyways, I'm new around here. I'm a submissive by nature and am currently started my exploration of the lifestyle with my fiance. =) Hopefully I can find some great information and such on here.

Thanks in advance for the warm welcomes that I've seen in other replies to new posters. =) This seems like a great community and I'm already glad to be a part of it! =)

**Silke** · 08-01-2006

BeautifulOblivion...great to see another future game addict. *grins* I'm sure you'll find loads of useful information on here and a lot of friends to play and share with. Glad you have found us - hope you enjoy!

**hawk_fann** · 08-01-2006

Hello BeautifulOblivion and welcome to the community. If you spend any time in games we'll meet soon enough! Enjoy the terrific people here.

**aree** · 08-01-2006

Hello BeautifulOblivion.

**Ozme52** · 08-01-2006

Welcome to everyone.

**Tojo** · 08-01-2006

Originally Posted by KY_Master

Was I coming on to strong? I apologize if it seemed that way.

No not at all KY- as the lovely katie says, that was just general advice.

Hi also to BeautifulOblivion- I'll resist the temptation to use the abbreviation...

Tojo

**dzire2pleeze** · 08-01-2006

Originally Posted by Tojo

I'll resist the temptation to use the abbreviation...

Tojo

ROFLOL - you're too funny.

Welcome BeautifulOblivion. As you already know this is a great place to be.

**poetic_justice** · 08-02-2006

to everyone that is new to the forums. I am sure you will like it here, and I hope you find whatever you may be searching for (even if its just a bit of fun)

- poetic_justice

**maddie** · 08-02-2006

Hello BeautifulOblivion!

Welcome to the forums!

cariad · 08-02-2006

Originally Posted by ChurchofVirus

Greetings all, you can call me CoV, I'm kinda new to the scene, I've done minor BDSM stuff here and there but never really got into it like the recent times. The women I am involved with pretty much turned me on to the scene and I'm loving it yet I feel like I have no clue what I am doing nor what to do.
I'm a Dom, or I try to and am here really to learn. I know that all these great master/pet relationships don't just happen, takes some know how, so here I am.

Feel free to point me in the right direction on where to start.

*EDIT*

Oh Yeah, seriously, if there would be anyone kind enough to mentor me through advise and discussion I'd really appreciate it. PM me if so.

Apologies for the rather delayed welcome from me to forums. From what you say in your post you have stumbled across the right place to be at this time. There are lots of people here, with oodles of knowledge and opinions, so as you wander through the threads you should be able to find what fits right with your personality and your relationship.

I hope you find, or even better, have found, someone to mentor you. The couple of times I have done this I have discovered it to be both one of the most consuming exercises, but also one of the most rewarding.

cariad

cariad · 08-02-2006

Originally Posted by The Good Girl

As of four days ago (hence my lateness in posting an introduction...other things on my mind, you may say!) I became the wife, forever-partner of the most amazing man on this earth (and on this forum!) for me: CG. He knew my ever-growing philosophy of life from the moment we met: no holds barred (in any aspect of life) be passionate about things, find the humour in the darkest of situations (having lived my formative years on the hellmouth) and give, give, give of yourself completely. You may have guessed that makes me the sub! (damn! no wonder my bottom's sore - but you'll never hear me beg!

)

We did just drift into mild exploration of these roles of dom and sub but the best thing for me is that from now on, I get to ask, and be asked by my best friend, lover, husband and master anything that would please me or him in our future.

So it's lovely to be here and learn more ways to please my very selfless husband so that I can be just like him when I grow up....

The Good Girl

Ohhhhhhhh - thank you for posting that introduction - it has filled me with such warm and happy feelings.

I pray that you will be speaking of your marriage in the same terms when it comes to the other side of the 'forever' you speak of.

cariad

.....oh - and

to forums

cariad · 08-02-2006

Originally Posted by susieq

Hi !
I'm susieq. I'm glad i found this place and am excited about getting to know some of you. Please read my profile to learn a little about me. I'm ineterested in getting new friends

Hello susieq - a big

and if your experience is anything like mine, after a slow start of feeling lost amongst all these names and people who seem to know just what is going on here, you will suddenly find that you have friends everywhere you turn. It is a wonderful place.

cariad

cariad · 08-02-2006

Originally Posted by suchandsuch

Hi. I am a male switch. I liked the stories and am excited to explore the online bdsm community. I would love to exchange ideas and communicate with individuals who are creative and wicked.

Hello suchandsuch and

I also started my journey into this site via the stories section - the only problem is that I now spend so much time communicating with the creative and wicked individuals here that I do not get round to reading the stories any more.

Hope you enjoy this part of your exploration of the BDSM community.

cariad

cariad · 08-02-2006

Originally Posted by debbieh

Hello, everyone. I'm a female submissive...

I've been interested in BDSM for a while now... I just can't seem to find anyone else around me who's into it and me in my town.

So I came here...

And although I am sad for you that you have not yet found anyone local to you who is interested in BDSM I am pleased that you have decided to join us here.

I hope you have a great time, learning more about the lifestyle and meeting the people on the this site.

cariad

cariad · 08-02-2006

Originally Posted by g dawg

i'm a 47 year old sub with little r/t experience, which is about to change hopefully. my wife has agreed to be my Domme, but is new and wants to learn the ropes. my life is about to change for the beter i think.

Ohhhhh - do let us know how it goes! I so love real life happy stories!!!!!

Oh - and welcome to forums.

cariad

cariad · 08-02-2006

Originally Posted by KY_Master

I'm new! Just joined about 10 minutes ago, thought I'd say hi and let you all know I'm not some lurker

21 year old Male here, hope to find a lovely online sub. ANy girls from Kentucky around here??

Hey - there is nothing wrong with lurking - I have been doing it for the past week and a bit, just means that you have catching up to do when you come out of lurk mode - as you can see from all my posts above and below.

Is lovely though that you did take the plunge and post, and a big

You might consider also posting in the personals section - you never know.....

.....and as you get involved with this community you could yet be fighting off lonely subs, although they tend to flock to those they feel they know. So keep posting.

cariad

cariad · 08-02-2006

Originally Posted by rosydawne

This is my first visit although I have been reading the stories for a while. I am in a committed vanilla lesbian relationship but I fantasize about being dominated by a man. Strange, I know but it is where I am.

Hello and

Sounds as if you could be in the right place to thoughtfully explore your fantasies without damaging you current relationship.

I hope you enjoy your time here, and that we are able to be a constructive part of the journey to you discovering what is right for you.

Take care
cariad

cariad · 08-02-2006

Originally Posted by BeautifulOblivion

Hey guys. I just joined the forums and actually made my first post in "word games. =)" That seems like a fun little thing to play.

Anyways, I'm new around here. I'm a submissive by nature and am currently started my exploration of the lifestyle with my fiance. =) Hopefully I can find some great information and such on here.

Thanks in advance for the warm welcomes that I've seen in other replies to new posters. =) This seems like a great community and I'm already glad to be a part of it! =)

Well - you joined yesterday, and already have 13.89 posts per day to your name! I guess you are finding your feet. You will have reached the magic 150 within the fortnight at this rate.

Smiles, yes, this is a great community, I am pleased to be able to

you into it, and I hope we live up to your expections.

cariad

**Violenteer** · 08-03-2006

Hello. Violenteer Checking in!

Glad to be here. Have not had much of a look around the site, but will proceed to do so! Great site.

Have been into the lifestyle for a while now (5 years), but have never taken it to the online community, it has always been self learnt, and taught ( Aaaaaah! How I love to teach!)

I am of a dominant nature, and have recently found myself a new lady. She has exceeded my expectations, here trust blows my mind, and as such am needing to learn some new techniques! I am hoping this is the place. Education is a life long thing.

Aside from all that, I am an engineer, a graphic designer and musician/singer. Would post you all some of my stuff, but external links not allowed. And that is O.K. But can I post stuff from my own site, that is stealing my own bandwidth isnt it?

I am from Australia.

Hoping to get to know you all well.

Speak soon, and keep the ropes tight.

Vio.

**poetic_justice** · 08-03-2006

Welcome to the forums Vio!!

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