Quote Originally Posted by 13'sbadkitty View Post
I like that very much! I am with my husband not to pay the bills I could have rented a room out in my house to cover. I am married because I have never slept well my entire life and woke up to everything and everyone. I sleep through the night with him in my bed.

My brother who is gay and got married in CA in 2008. He very much wants to live in a world where he and his husband are recognized the same as my husband and I are no matter what state.

While I agree that the over all approach to marriage and divorce may need to be revisited...I am happy and cozy in my marriage. It is right where I belong.
I like to hear about things that work :-)

I was thinking maybe it is isn't as much approaches to marriage and divorce that needs to be revisited, as the conditions marriages have to work under?