Honestly, I can't remember what site these were on. These were guidelines based off of a social gathering. I understand that rules change and that everybody is into different stuff. I am really big into the etiquette of BDSM. Between slave and Master there are little things that are done to show submission and ownership. I was by no means saying that everyone needed to follow these rules. The original point of my post was to receive feedback. The above rules that I listed were just a few examples of slave etiquette.