I always feel like I got lucky with my Master. A very good friend of mine that just so happened to let his dominant side slip in random conversation.

I instantly knew that I wanted to be His slave. I maintain so much control and power in every aspect of my life that when it came to this, I needed to lose control.

Communication has been huge in our relationship, but I will admit that I used internet tools to get a really good idea of what BDSM is. Google and I are very close! Lol and I was lucky enough to stumble across this site. The more I read up on the lifestyle, the more clear I was on what kind of BDSM role and kinks I was interested in. I also realized that you can't believe everything you read about BDSM. The lifestyle is based on yours and you Master's wants and desires.

So, as said above... a good Dom, some research, and some communication will get you on your way to finding the inner sub in you.

Welcome to the site by the way I hope you find everything you are looking for!,