Sit down and talk with your wife...Have her tell you why she wants to be dominated in the bedroom!... Then have her make out a list of all the things she knows she wants or thinks she wants...Make out your own list of things you think you would want to do or things you want to try...Sit down together and compare your lists....make a new list of the ones you have in common....sort them by the order of desire...add any from her list that were strong desires of hers that you didn't mutually share....add any from your list that were strong desires of yours but not mutually shared by her.....sit down and discuss the new list...ask her any and all questions that come to mind about her choices....answer any and all of hers about your choices....now pick your very favorite and let her pick her very favorite.....talk about what you both hope to get out of performing your chosen scenes....play it out in your head..write it down....do a dry run on your own walking thru the required activities....when they feel good and sequence is right...do a walk thru with her describing your actions and responses....when that feels right...set a date and time and let the games begin....then pick a new scene to perform...do one of hers and one of yours...keep adding to your list of very favorites till you have all the things on there that you both originally wanted.....then do it all over again....just like wash.. rinse... repeat... Play safe and Be well