*nods lots*
excellent point Sir, indeed...
I did not know I was a submissive, until my readings introduced me to the concepts.
When I think back, I know there were personality traits of Dominant men and women that I was very attracted too. Just because these people may not have either revealed their interests in or practice of BDSM, D/s does not make them less Dominant, does it?
My Master has been wonderful in helping me recognize how I have been a natural submissive all my life, nothing really has changed since I have begun to read, study, learn and grow in my slavery. Would it not be the same for Dominants?
I dunno, but it makes me wonder...
veru skjava