Quote Originally Posted by The Librarian View Post
I have a long distance relationship, but we have decided not to be 'committed." That might sound a bit of a contradiction but some reason it makes sense to us.
I understand what you're saying and really don't see it as a contradiction.

A very close friend of mine has been in a very committed vanilla long distance relationship for a year now. They finally met each other for the first time in real life last week. Prior to that they spent as much time as possible communicating through IM, FaceBook, the phone, and with web cam. She says now that she's met him and finally got the physical side of the relationship, she feels that she can't go another year without it. She feels they should either move to the same state, have an open relationship, or call it quits.

Personally, I've always struggled greatly with long distance relationships. I have to have that physical part of all of it. To be able to look deep into their eyes and really just feel the love.

As also said above, it is what you make it. If there is communication, compromise, and the ability to follow through with an agreement then anything is possible. As long as its mutual and both parties are happy, then that's all that matters.

Happy playing... whether it be from a thousand miles away or 6 inches away