First, I have to say Asia very good, I understand were you are coming from and your bother in law, I feel his pain, know his nightmares, All to the tune of Goverments (all not just the US or UK) Ideas wants and ego building.
Genreal McCarthur side it well "No one prays for peace more then the combat soldeir" then you have billy joel song goodnight siagon in it he sings true words
"Whos wrong or whos right dosent matter in the thick of a firefight"
I also like to say about flag burning, i really dont have any >> however if i didnt like it I would have to defend it as thats a true consitional right here in Amercia, its called the 1st admentment. I as a american dont have to like what anyone says or dose here, as this country was build on the blood and souls of our best, brightes, in so many far away places. So we have that right.
Once again Asia, keep up the peace fight if we had more like minded people in the Goverments in the world we would have to drape coffins or fold flags.

Thank You
Master Rob