mmhmm, just like all the reading i did was to get a feel for what is and what is not, it helped me learn to have a voice, being that i am a natural born, one who actually is aroused by the very idea of pleasing and naturally takes up a submissive role, all my reading helped me learn that its okay to say no, and who to trust, im happy the reading helped you too, i mostly posted it for my boyfriend, so he could find it and understand a bit better who i am and why i am the way that i am. he knows more than i could really put into words why i am a submissive i am just waiting for him to realize it. :3