personally? who cares? i mean really... i am a submissive to men and a Domme to women, my reasoning? because i am overprotective of whats mine even if that person happens to have collared me, any female brought in would be under my control first, and taught to please as i do...
or maybe because im Bi and a control freak i want to top women but expect men to be Dominant for me ehh... either way my parents always told me that bisexuals were fucked in the head and pagans were damned to hell so maybe im fucked in the head and going to hell but im gonna have fun before it happens! so who cares what people think , none of them will ever be you, so they cant know what YOU are or how worthy YOU are, just live your life and have fun.
maybe i rambled... this happens...