I have to admit that over the last 3 months of play, I have had no desire to masturbate. Yes, I'm that satisfied.

The last time I masturbated, I was tasked to achieve 3 orgasms in an hour and a half and was told to count them off as I had them. Well, I achieved 8. My Master was very proud of me to say the least.

Last week I had mentioned seducing myself out of boredom and he shut me down. His claim was that we were so close to our next planned hard play session that he wanted that orgasm saved for him. And so I listened and did not go there.

I will definitely say its a control thing. I'm not forbidden to do it. However, if He chooses to dominate over that area of my life, he will simply say something. Somebody had mentioned above that masturbating without permission is bad, but I only see it that way if that particular D/s relationship is set with those guidelines. I'd say if it is something you're not ok with, work through it with your Dom.