Quote Originally Posted by Tojo
The way I handle it is to say in essence 'well if you don't want me.....'

I just point out that it's her choice after all.


Tojo
I have to disagree with that one unless you are indeed willing to give her up. Don't make empty threats.

I'd suggest letting her masterbate, indeed insist on it... but forbid her her orgasm. Make her masterbate in front of you, take her to a restaurant and make her masterbate under the tablecloth, in the car in the parking lot. I'm sure you can come up with other ideas.

If she comes, she gets punished. Punishment could include loss of the use of her hands (cuffs, and/or binders) for the length of the punishment period... during which time you keep her aroused and unsatisfied, alternated with any of the following... spanking/flogging/singlewhip/caning.

All the while you will be educating her to the fact that nagging is unbecoming and not to be tolerated.

Forced orgasms are, in my opinion, a reward for nagging. Save this for some other type of transgression... say... if she refuses one of your orders.