as a general rule, my Boyfriend/Dom knows i touch myself, before it wasnt really spoken about, now though... He wants to know when im doing it, and i am happy to inform Him sometimes He tells me to leave my toy where it is, in which case i say okay and behave, other times He tells me what to do to myself, both of these i love, because we dont get alot of alone time and though i used to hate masturbation i actually love it now, because He encourages me so much.