Quote Originally Posted by denuseri View Post
<< agrees with the above 100%

and would like to add that submissive doesnt need to equal "dependent"
I agree. Being 'dependant' would mean that you could not run your own life, but why should that be the case? I think it is few doms micro manage their subs.

Good luck with finding a dom who can dominate you to give you that place of safety, and yet give you space to breathe :-)