Husband isnt dom but Im a sub

[Ozme52]

I don't wish to rain on your parade, SIMI, but if your HUSBAND has no interest in you, and seems to barely recognize that you exist unless you happen to be around other men, it seems to me like you're in a very emotionally abusive relationship. The thing that a lot of people don't seem to realize is that emotional abuse is often MORE scarring than physical abuse. And that's because emotional scars can last forever where as physical ones eventually fade with time (for the most part). In my opinion, your options for this relationship, if you can call it that, are very limited. If you're determined to hold on to the relationship, then I would advise seeking out couple's councelling. Otherwise, as painful as it may be, your best interests may be served by leaving your husband.

I must agree.