This is my first post on this forum, your thread really hit home with me. Almost exact situation. My husband completely lacks a sex drive. I have had to iniate sex for over ten years and its five minutes and done. I am at the point where I want to leave so badly, but we have three children and its impossible. I am basically stuck at my house 24/7. We have one car and he uses it to get to work. Any extra money we have goes to buy guns for himself instead of a car for me. He pretty much knows that I would leave if I had a way, so he makes sure I don't. I have hope that one day this will change. Just know that there are many people out there that are going through the exact same situation.