I am so sorry marimmm you make me want to cry. I at least have work so I can get away. But if you ever need any help I can get you all the resources to leave if you need to (I know from where I work). I stay on my own because I dont want to ruin my sons life...I feel like it was my choice to marry him and my son shouldnt have to suffer for it. But I will leave when he gets just a little older.