I know exactly what you mean Broganna. Since my divorce, I have succeeded in taking care of myself financially and emotionally. That makes me self-confident and independent. I like that feeling and don't wish to surrender it. I call myself a submissive because that's the way I am and wish to be in bed. There does seem to be an expectation in the fetish/bdsm community that a sub will have a dom/master. That's fine with me until I walk out of the bedroom/dungeon. However, I don't want to tie myself to a single person. I don't consider this an attachment disorder. Its a personal preference.

I'm not interested in stealing anyone else's dom; I just want to play with many unattached doms. Maybe I'll find one someday that pushes all my buttons and captures my soul. Until then, call me a slut..lol