not to sound harsh or demeaning...but first you want to be a Dom....I think that is great, but please don't put yourself out there as something you are not....there are way too many out there that do.....all it does is get people hurt....that said...open an account for yourself....post your add seeking help..... learn all you can before you start acting out....it will serve you and her better in the long run..... sit down and talk to her and find out what she needs from you...find out what you are comfortable doing.....then practice those till you both get what you want from it...then experiment with what you both want next....or one of your desires and one of hers..... But please get some basic training from someone who has been doing it....Be safe and Play well