Submissive/Slave Please introduce yourselves here

[Silke]

Hiya and to the forums, CuriosityKills. Good luck for you and your boyfriend.

[CuriosityKills]

Thank you

[submissivewife]

Curiosity hope you enjoy yourself here.

[Weena]

I thought I should properly introduce myself, since I have been poking around alot lately.
My name is Weena, and I have been with my Master/boyfriend Brandon for seven years.
We recently found out that what we were doing actually had a name and there were other people who enjoyed the same things. We have been having fun exploring the other aspects of BDSM that we have found, and so far are enjoying ourselves. A few things we enjoy are... forced orgasm and denial, breath play, large object play, vaginal fisting, rope, clamps, blindfold, restraints, spanking, breast bondage, light humiliation.
I really like this forum and plan on staying here. Everyone is very nice and informative. Thanks for making us newbies feel welcome!

[wingsofanangel]

Well, basically everyone knows me. but I will tell of my submissive history.

I have always been submissive.... really in everyday things. Not really timid or just afraid to speak up, but timid. I have always enjoyed making other people happy in whatever ways I could. Rather that was cleaning the house for my mom or making dinner for my dad if mom couldn't... helping with my sister.. etc....

then I moved when the summer I turned 15.. shortly after I started to role-play characters in chats on AOL... and stuff.. I met a lovely boy there... yes a boy. though he wouldn't be considered that by anything else than his age. We started a greally great story line and slowly bdsm and stuff crept in. I always played a submissive character and stuff but this was a whole new world. Of course I played out some of my emotions.. and then I realized I was a submissive myself... When I was 16 I think.... is when he and I really started to play around with it more R/L.... on-line though. We did talk on the phone and stuff... but anyway.. thats where I got my introduction. I have been a subbie since and wouldn't change it for the world. I know my place in the world... and its on my knees.

Anya

[wingsofanangel]

Welcome! Glad you found someone that really cherishes you and takes care of you. You absolutley deserve it!!!

Anya

[ms2bused]

I am a 31 y.o. corporate attorney, who is 5'0", 103 lbs., having Auburn (Natural) hair and Green eyes! As the male response to my appearance seems to dictate that I am quite femininely attractive, my only fault seems to be in my inability to attract feminine Domme women in the real world! It was only 4 years ago that I passed the Bar Associations' requirements but prior to that, I was the complete, worshipful submissive to a lovely Jewish woman for a period of 7 1/2 years who happened to be 9 years my senior! She intuitively detected my underlying, latent lesbian desires, as well as my deep-seated masochistic tendencies! It took her hardly no real time at all to mold me, and manipulate me to the slavish individual I am still, today! If it had not been that just prior to our intiial meeting, my Grandfather had passed on leaving me a sizeable legacy, I would never ever been able, or capable of totally adhering to her insatiable demands for ONLY the very finest materialistic things that she required of me! She often complimented me on my amazing capacity for pain/suffering at her hands and for the unfathomable ability for rapid-healing. As I was still schooling at that time in my life, she was always cognizant of the fact that I should not carry injury of any type on my face or publicly visible parts of myself! Our sex life was immensely one-sided; i.e. mainly, MY pleasuring HER orally! In the beginning, I thought this to be very unfair, but as fate would have it, it was not long at all until I astoundingly discovered that I was able to reach an orgasm at the same exact moment I was able to bring her to hers without her even as much as caressingly touching me, with the exception that she came to use my ears as handles for her convenience! Sadly, 1 year ago, she left me for a very wealthy man (of all things) and is now married to him! Now all I do is yearn to find a like facsimile of her so that I could again have the best of two worlds; assertive and aggresive in my business life, but the complete opposite after office hours!

[Silke]

Wow, thank you for that thorough intro, ms2bused. to our cosy home and hope you'll share more in time. Enjoy and good luck on your search!

[Warbaby1943]

ms2bused,

to the forums. Hope you find what you're looking for.

[submissivewife]

again hope you enjoy

[frankee]

My name is frankee and have just recently ventured into the lifestyle with my online Domme and also the Love of my life.
She has help to mold me and embrace my submissive side. Although we have yet to play in r/t, we have done so via email and on the phone. W/we meet in August for the first time *grinning like an idiot*, W/we have B/both discussed what kind of playing W/we would like to participate in.
W/we both have a tendency towards the rougher side of things, so i'm convinced that W/we are B/both compatible.
i am confident that my training is in the very capable hands of my Mistress.

frankee
Proud sub of Mistress Cindy

[mvrg]

Hi every one, I am raj. I always wanted to be an obedient slave to a dominant and loving mistress. I am a masochist. I often put clamps to my nipples and lie below burning candles. I enjoy the pain on my nipples while the dripping wax is burning through my body where ever it falls. Even though I am not a slave of anyone , I would love to have an e-relationship.

[Silke]

Hiya raj...thanks for the intro If you're looking for an online relationship you might consider posting an ad in the Personals, too.

Mmmmm...wax....*smiles*

[Evelyn]

Hi, I'm Evelyn from germany. I'm new in this forum, but since more then 9 years in alternate life style, now always in 24/7 together with my lover, husband, master, slave holder, key holder....
Always interested in good talks and new ideas, I'm very curiouse about this forum. But please forgive me (or punish me :-) for my typos and mistakes I'll make here, because english is not my mother language.


Eve

[Silke]

Oh my...another fellow German girl - Evelyn. I'm sure you'll find a willing domly one to punish any and all typos - existant or non-existant - if you so wish. Good to have you on board - enjoy!

[latina69]

I am known as Raven to my Dom.. I am a newbbie, to this lifestyle offically.. My Dom introduced me to this world little by little ( I guess he was testing the waters) and he has found that Im willing to do anyting to and for him.. I love to please him oH so well and at times I like to be bad just to see what he will do to me...

I love the fact that I was actually able to find someone that really understood my wants and needs.. As he was doing his research on me, he was able to understand my body and all of it's reactions to his touch.. he was able and willing to take all control away from me ( well I gave it up, willingly) so I could finally let go...

But as a the new kid on the block I still have alot to learn, so I will asking alot of questions... I have done some research and have a better understanding of this lifestyle, but I know that there's a lot more to learn...

[Soumis]

Hi everyone,

I feel like I'm doing the intro rounds here; first the regular intro thread, then the personals, now here. I suppose you'll all know who I am, though, right? Anyway, since this is the submissive section, I guess I should spend a little time telling you all about my experiences as a sub.

I had my first real time experience as a submissive when I was 16. It was with one of my father's friends, and it was completely consensual. I was first able to put a name to what I'd been feeling all my life when I was a year or so younger. I stumbled on a website that depicted a woman tied up in a spread eagle in front of a group of people, and it was eerie. That was the exact same thing I'd been fantasizing about since I first started masturbating (I'm not sure if I'm allowed to say how old I was because of child issues?) and, like most people, it made me feel immesurably better to know I wasn't insane or sick, merely a smidgen deviant and a lot of fun.

Since then, I've had to hide many of my lifestyle choices from my parents and my vanilla friends, but I've had a small circle of supportive, kink-friendly friends, playmates, Dominants, subs, etc. I normally play with other females, but have had the pleasure to play with a male or two as well in my travels. Unfortunately, people follow different paths in their lives, and many of my real life friends have travelled paths that took them out of driving distance, but Skype is a person's best friend these days.

Anyway, that's me, in my submissive nutshell!

[poetic_justice]

I've always felt a submissive nature in myself, well before I was sexually active. I used to dream and have fantasies of being tied down and teased, whipped, sensually tortured by someone while I was growing up. I still have some of these dreams.

I really became interested in the lifestyle when I stumbled across a chatroom and realised that this is a lot more widespread that I'd previously thought. My research led me as far back as the Bible in matters of submissiveness, and I remember the profound relief I felt when I realised that this wasn't something I should be ashamed of, afraid of.

My first submissive experience was when I lost my virginity... I don't know how to say this correctly, to put across the intense FEAR I felt at the actions that accompanied my 'deflowering'. Its not something I am proud of, its something I wish deeply had never happened with Him. There was no pleasure for me in this first action of submissiveness on my part, and I am surprised I am still interested and not afraid of the BDSM scene because of Him. It was consensual, and He knew of my submissive nature, He had figured that out long ago. Because of this, I believe He thought that He would be able to pull off a dominant role in the bedroom, He was dominant, but He successfully inflicted nothing but pain, fear and humiliation in me as I gave Him my virginity.

I think it necessary to tell you now that it is not something that stops me being who I am. The event itself changed me deeply, but I would not swap the experience for the world. It made me who I am today, and on some level I am thankful for that. I am now happily in a relationship with someone, the first someone that has ever actually cared about what I feel. I feel honoured that I am lucky enough to be with him.

- poetic_justice

[submissivewife]

Poetic....sometimes, it's our submissive side that gets us through our bad experiences....I'm not sure what happened, but glad you have the outlook you have about it. It's great to see that you have found a dom that is great to you.....good luck in your adventures....

subwife

[postkdp]

Hi,

I've been a submissive ever since I've been sexual, but I've never been able to sustain my submissiveness in a relationship that didn't implode almost right away.

There's few things that give me more pleasure than the idea of being ordered around and verbally degraded. I guess I've decided to really take the plunge on this one and see where putting this out to the public forum will get to.

[Warbaby1943]

Hi postkdp and to the forums. You came to the right place if you want to learn about this life style. Ask questions there are many knowledgeable people here who are willing to help.

[Silke]

postkdp...hope you'll find what you're looking for here.

[BeautifulOblivion]

*waves*

Hi! I'm BeautifulOblivion, please don't call me BO, I don't smell icky. ~_^

I'm a budding submissive and have just begun exploring the BDSM lifestyle with my fiance. I'm full of questions and pretty much willing to try just about anything. So far, reading through some of these forums has helped me, quite a lot. I managed to ensare my fiance in the trap of BDSM just by talking about it to him and he's really started to get into it, although we haven't experimented much as I only get to see him one weekend a month, if I'm lucky. But now that I've found this community, I'll be around for a long time!

[Silke]

Glad you like our cosy little home, Beautiful. And a big hug for the time apart from your fiance...we'll try and keep you busy. *grins*

[MajesticFae]

Hello, Everyone. I'm a female submissive. I've never really experimented in the lifestyle, but I'm looking to learn and possibly find an online dominant as finding one in the real world will not work with my relationship situation.

I've always felt submissive and ready to try and please others. I'm willing to learn and be trained, I just need to find the right person to do it I suppose. I'm a bit of a masochist.

I also think I might be a bit of a switch, but I haven't determined that yet because I do have random bouts of dominating tendencies.

Good luck to me and I hope that I learn as much as I want to in this lovely community.

[radiant]

Hi, I'm Radiant, and i am looking for a master to please.

[Scorpio'sWill2Power]

Hello to all of you that are searching for
the completeness of this realtionship between
Master and submissive.

Warm wishes to each of you that you find
your heart within that someone you give the
gift of yourself to.

[pixie_dust]

Hello everyone,

I came across this site while looking for new things to "spark" my marriage. Since my first visit here, my Dom and I have discovered many new and wonderful things about each other, as well as ways to enhance our lifestyle.

While I have always known that I was submissive, I never realized how deeply it ran, nor was I aware of the many ways to express my submissive side. The information provided here has given me the ability to explore and discover all these things, and has had a very positive impact on my life.

I am deeply appreciative to all those here who have made me feel welcome and have shared their insights and knowledge with me.

[Silke]

*smiles* I still remember you first steps here...SO glad you found that spark of inspiration and that we all could play a little part in that. I hope you continue to share how things are going for you and your husband.

[pixie_dust]

Thanks. It feels as though this has become my second home and many of you have become family. I know that should I ever have a question or need to vent, I am able to do so here without judgement or criticism.