Thanks doe, I don't take offence

At the risk of sounding like the quintescential victim, he's never been that way before. Normally he's very lovig and cuddly after play, but the last few times he's just on the run. Outside of play, he's the same wonderful attentive guy, but it's almost like he can't pull himself out of the Dom thing long enough to help.

But I thank you for your suggestion, I think I'll put the brakes on play until he and I can work it out.