hmmm...i've been sitting here and absorbing this for a bit, and i think i would have to say that i don't completely understand why one would test their dominant to start with. it would seem to me that if you are intentionally testing your dominant, there has to be something lacking... (just my opinion. i'm fully aware that my opinion is not necessarily the right one...it is just that. an opinion.)

personally...i would never purposely or consciously test my dominant, as i believe that he deserves so much better from me. now, that being said...i'm sure there are moments where he may be tested, but where i have not set out to test in a pre-meditated manner......this is just part and parcel with human nature, lol!