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Ok I talked to him about what I mentioned in the post and his response was " We got through 10 years of the way we had sex before we can go 10 more with just what we are doing now.Sex now is vanilla and a little BDSM sprinkled in.I want mostly BDSM and no vanilla.I am going to ask him to go to "The Upper Floor" maybe he will get what I am looking for.He is not much on going out and meeting new people,he likes to stay home.I don't think I could EVER get him to go to one of those munch parties.Well thanks for reading and responding if you did
Dear sexyslave69: Judging from your post on bdsm 101 'husband finds it hard to be mean' as well as this one, the problem seems to be simply that the bdsm needs are largely yours and not his. You can drag a horse to the water, but you cannot force it to drink, as the saying goes.