I am a submissive with a Mistress that is just getting used to the fact that she is in charge. Her upbring does not support that of a female led relationship nor has she ever heard of such. Despite all of this she is learning due to reading a few good books and some interesting stories. I have been submissive for most of my life, even though my work was that of a boss and thus more dominant. We have been together for about 10 years and I recently approached her with this subject to my surprise she is quite willing to learn.