The way the person put the directive at me was to sugest that Fem/Dom is clean, healthy and a slight kink in the Vanilla world. Pointing out that BDSM was just a part of Fem/Dom. I think personally that it is part of BDSM and is as dangerous at times as any other activity i know. It can be painful, humiliating and humbling, and to say such a thing leads me to asume, is was said to justify themselves in the Vanilla world as normal.

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